the yin and yang of seduction/money making.

caution : few will get this

i’ve noticed something interesting about myself recently…

everytime I go meet a girl, I sleep deprive myself.

why? I’m too smart for my own good. I need to make myself a little bit more retarded.

30 hours no sleep. pablos in my pocket.

and it works a charm…

it’s very much like a “high”, and it makes you charming naturally.

you do everything in YOUR pace.

you reply when you feel like it…

you sit down however feels comfortable…

you don’t try too hard…

you just don’t care.

your brain struggles to process things… creating a “foggy” feeling in your mind.

you’re living lucidly.

you say whatever you feel like saying. you do what you feel like doing. it makes you a little bit more of a retard.

and guess what… that’s good.

you see… guys like us are lowkey a little bit autistic. we’re actually too smart for our own good.

especially if you’re heavy into copywriting/marketing/human emotion.

what you do all day is analyse emotion, analyse how certain things hit certain parts of the brain.

this becomes a habit.

and you start analysing every situation.

you need everything to be perfect… just like a sales page you’re writing and editing.

it’s a blessing and a curse… because seduction is not about perfection. quite the opposite.

you need to change from solid to liquid. you need to flow.

don’t skip over that line. you need to flow.

and it’s hard to become liquid when we’re in our normal completely awake and aware state. because what we do in this state is do intelligent work. and dealing with girls is far from intelligent work.

but if you’re sleep deprived or high… and you’re intelligent. you’re turning this flaw into game.

so I want to let you in on some game…

being intelligent is a blessing and a curse. you already know that. but you can weaponise this and make it a double blessing.

and here’s where i want to introduce you to the yin and yang of money making and seduction.

direct/dismissive, also known as hot and cold.

a lot of guys get hot and cold wrong.

it’s not about love bombing…

hot and cold is just what you have to be. in business and seduction.

let’s take an example of a real life scenario I had…

met up with this girl for a coffee… I’m sleep deprived so i have a redbull on the side too.

basically, I’m trying not to fall asleep in this chair.

she’s speaking yappanese, I’m not listening to a word.

she’s boring. I’m basically asleep at this point.

I’m just staring into her eyes not listening to a word she’s saying… infact… I can’t even comprehend what she’s saying.

so we’ll just make the conversation retarded…

staring into her eyes as she’s yapping…

and use some tone manipulation and make my voice a little smoother…

“your eyes are so nice”

she’s in the middle of a rant and just stops, basically gets flustered.

cute. I lay back and I’m trying not to fall asleep again while she’s blushing over my little compliment.

while she’s still in that mode, I’m just pondering out the window I see a prison.

tone manipulation again, deeper voice.

“what would you do if we’re completely in love with eachother and everythings perfect, then I just disappear one day?”

she’s still flustered, but now she’s a little confused.

I just gave her a direct compliment… now I’m dismissive… talking about some made up scenario where she never sees me again.

"I'll bail you out, even though i'm broke"

a lot of game going on here… she’s visualising a future of me and her being completely in love… I’m painting the picture because I said it. so she’s visualising it making her “ease” and fall into. you already know about the law of attraction.

that’s hot and cold for you.

and if you keep doing this, you’re just programming her to chase that “direct” version of you whenever you turn “dismissive”

keeping it fun. keeping it playful.

and why does this link back to sleep deprevation?

because when you’re sleep deprived. you simply don’t care about anything.

you’re just wanting some sleep and rest. so your baseline desire is some rest.

but if you’re fully awake… fully present… then your baseline desire is to get to some end goal with her.

your BASELINE should be dismissive and unbothered. not the other way round.

few will get this. rest is covered in detail in the attractive character course.

but if you DO. you’re tiers above everyone else.

just remember…

dismissive and direct. your baseline should be dismissive. direct should be intentional. you can feed her direct when you feel like she deserves it (i.e does something you like)

there’s layers to this…

but anyway… how should you use this in business?

well, let’s talk about a topic called copy cadence.

your sales pages… your emails… your copy”writing” should have a RHYTYM

to keep the reader reading, your copy must 'sing'.

this means following a rhythm. and rhythm comes from tension and release.

using a combination of short sentences and longer ones, you will create a cadence. A groove.

80% of your sentences can be medium or short. 20% long. Spread them evenly so your writing doesn't feel repetitive.

(creds to rain for writing that, full marketing/copy course in the swn)

this is viewer retention at it’s finest…

trough… and a peak.

buildup (dismissive) and release (direct)

there’s layers to this as I said…

but everything has a yin and yang.

the more you know about it… the more clear it gets…

you need to master both yin and yang (dismissive and direct) in ALL areas of life.

another example… being dismissive and careless until it’s time to put your full brainpower into a task (saving brain points)

the secret to life is simple..

see everything as CARELESS and PLAYFUL. this makes you use your “direct” masculine energy with intention.

few will get this, as I said.

but that’s enough game…

this email was a bit more abstract… I hope you got a little bit out of it.

just remember…

direct and dismissive.

stay busy.

d4”2busy”

P.S rest of my secrets on money/marketing/girls/game in here.